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10 Things To Do Before Your Wedding Day To Reduce StressBathurst Wedding Photographer | Bathurst Wedding Videographer | Central West Wedding Photographer

Writer: Maddi Lee’s Photography
Maddi Lee’s Photography
Jun 19
3 min read

Let's be honest.

No matter how organised you are, wedding planning can feel overwhelming at times.

Between finalising vendors, confirming guest numbers, organising timelines and trying to remember every little detail, it's completely normal to feel stressed in the weeks leading up to your wedding.

The good news?

A little preparation can make a huge difference.

As a Bathurst wedding photographer and wedding videographer, I've been lucky enough to witness countless wedding days, and there are a few things that consistently help couples feel more relaxed, present and able to enjoy the day they've spent so long planning.

1. Trust The Vendors You've Chosen

By the time your wedding day arrives, you've already done the hard work.

You've researched.

You've asked questions.

You've booked people you trust.

Now it's time to let them do what they do best.

Your vendors genuinely want your day to be incredible.

The more you trust the team around you, the more you can focus on enjoying the experience rather than managing it.

2. Create A Simple Wedding Day Timeline

A timeline doesn't need to be complicated.

It simply needs to provide enough structure that everyone knows where they need to be and when.

One of the biggest causes of wedding day stress is uncertainty.

Having a clear timeline helps keep the day moving smoothly while allowing plenty of room for flexibility.

3. Pack Your Details The Night Before

If you'd like detail photographs, gather everything together before the wedding morning.

This might include:

  • Rings

  • Invitations

  • Vow books

  • Jewellery

  • Perfume

  • Shoes

  • Veil

  • Special keepsakes

Having everything ready saves time and prevents last-minute scrambling.

4. Eat Breakfast

This sounds simple.

But you'd be surprised how many couples forget.

Wedding mornings are exciting, emotional and often busy.

Make sure you eat something and stay hydrated throughout the day.

You'll feel significantly better for it.

5. Allow Extra Travel Time

If you've ever driven through Bathurst, you'll know that sometimes unexpected delays happen.

Roadworks.

Traffic.

Weather.

A timeline with a little buffer built in creates far less stress than a timeline running right down to the minute.

6. Prepare A Family Photo List

Family photos are one of the most important parts of the day, but they're also the part most likely to run behind schedule if people aren't prepared.

Creating a simple list beforehand ensures we capture everyone efficiently and allows you to get back to celebrating with your guests sooner.

7. Delegate Small Tasks

You should not be answering supplier calls, organising decorations or solving seating plan issues on your wedding day.

That's what your bridal party, family members and vendors are for.

Choose a few trusted people and allow them to help.

You don't have to carry everything yourself.

8. Accept That Something Will Probably Go Wrong

This might sound strange, but it's genuinely one of the best pieces of advice I can give.

Almost every wedding has something that doesn't go exactly according to plan.

A button falls off.

Someone forgets something.

The weather changes.

A vendor runs five minutes late.

Most of the time, nobody notices.

The couples who enjoy their wedding day the most are usually the ones who accept that perfection isn't the goal.

Celebration is.

9. Schedule Time Together

Wedding days move incredibly fast.

One minute you're getting ready and the next you're cutting the cake.

Build small moments into the day where it's just the two of you.

Whether it's private vows, a first look or ten minutes together during sunset portraits, these moments often become some of the most meaningful memories from the entire day.

10. Remember Why You're There

At the end of the day, your wedding isn't about timelines, flowers, seating charts or perfectly folded napkins.

It's about marrying the person you love.

Everything else is simply a bonus.

When things feel overwhelming, come back to that.

Because that's what truly matters.

My Advice As A Bathurst Wedding Photographer

The weddings that feel the most relaxed aren't always the ones with the biggest budgets or the most elaborate details.

They're the weddings where couples allow themselves to be present.

The more preparation you do beforehand, the easier it becomes to let go and enjoy the day when it finally arrives.

Trust your vendors.

Trust your planning.

Trust each other.

And most importantly, have fun.

Looking For A Bathurst Wedding Photographer Or Wedding Videographer?

If you're planning a wedding in Bathurst, Orange, Lithgow or anywhere throughout Central West NSW, I'd love to help document your day.

My approach is focused on genuine moments, real connection and helping couples feel relaxed so they can spend more time celebrating and less time worrying about the camera.

Because the best wedding photos aren't just about how your day looked.

They're about how it felt. 🤍

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Maddi Lee's Photography is the work of Maddison Berrisford, a wedding and lifestyle photographer based in Central West NSW, capturing love stories across the Blue Mountains, Sydney, the Snowy Valleys, and wherever your story takes you. Best known for her weddings and couples photography, Maddi also captures proposals, engagements, maternity, families, newborns, Fresh 48, and branding photography, with both photo and video services available.

Every session is designed to be more than just taking photos. It's about slowing down, connecting with the people you love, and creating memories you'll actually want to look back on. With a relaxed, movement-focused approach and gentle guidance along the way, Maddi creates a space where you can laugh, be yourselves, and forget the camera is even there. The result is a gallery filled with genuine emotion, real connection, and timeless memories that feel just as meaningful years from now as they did on the day.

 

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